Where to find scriptural help, regarding Christian virtues and character:
Ephesians 4:22-24
You were taught, with regard to your former way of like, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
2 Peter 3:18
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.